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Daily Connections Recap - 4/3/2020 - Busting Boredom

Written by Sinikka Waugh | Apr 3, 2020 6:51:36 PM

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On today's call...

Sinikka shared a few tips about busting boredom. 

Weekends are taking a new shape and a new feel for us right now – and maybe evenings and even some portion of the day too as we find ourselves bound at home, with most states in the US declaring shelter in place restrictions. 

So I spent a little time digging into what causes boredom and how to respond to it.

What causes it seems to be a variety of things, with themes around lack of variety, something that can’t really be defined, and a lack of personal self-management skills; responses seem to include both “preventing it” and “coping with it”.

  • Don’t let yourself call it bored – turn it actively to curiosity, meditation, or something not boredom.
  • Create variety – change of scenery, change of location
  • Leverage it as a trigger – clean something, plant something, empty something, do those things you’ve been putting off
  • Shift your focus to someone else – use it as a chance to volunteer, to serve

Here were some ideas and questions shared by the group:

  • “If you have time to lean you have time to clean” 
  • Dig deeper into your boredom. Are you really bored? Or are you maybe lonely? Or are you stressed? or anxious?
  • Reaching out and texting or calling a friend is a great way to bust boredom and make connections in this time.
  • Try finding a different kind of music, or a different tempo of music to listen to and help change things up.
  • Go room to room (and even walk around outside your house) and make a list of all the tasks you might have been avoiding.
  • I haven't really found myself to be bored yet and I think it’s because I've been finding myself working on a bunch of projects around the house.
  • When you talked about shifting your focus to someone else, we threw a welcome home social distancing parade for a friend who just got home from being in the hospital for some time and it was one of the greatest things that I've experienced in the last couple weeks.
  • I normally associate the word boredom with “lazy” so I've actually tried to give myself some grace and be a little lazy, but I've also been thinking while I’m working in my office about the things I would like to do when I’m done with work.
  • I think often boredom is just a lack of interest or low energy, so I think it can be pretty easy to solve by just taking a quick walk or doodling. I think it’s a decision to not pursue anything.
  • I normally associate the word boredom with “lazy” so I've actually tried to give myself some grace and be a little lazy, but I've also been thinking while I’m working in my office about the things I would like to do when I’m done with work.
  • I think often boredom is just a lack of interest or low energy, so I think it can be pretty easy to solve by just taking a quick walk or doodling. I think it’s a decision to not pursue anything.
  • For me it’s not boredom it’s just loneliness. So not being able to have that human connection is very difficult for me.

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